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12-18-2020, 03:11 PM
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My Shadow Crossed The "Rainbow Bridge"
It is with great sadness that I to had to euthanize my Beloved Shadow on Dec 08/20, whom had 15 wonderful years, she had a good run.
It was the 2nd toughest decision of my life, but it was the best for her, and not my selflessness of wanting to keep her going, and for her quality of life, or lack of @ the time.
I find myself seeing Shadow everywhere, every sight, or sound.....hoping it's her.
Shadow was a rescue Dog, but it was her that rescued us, she taught me to have more patience, to laugh, to be more compassionate.
Shadow was my fishing pal, she really was a shadow, never ever far behind, and would follow everywhere!
Shadow was very accomplished at hunting tree rats (squirrells) and would go into a frenzy when I picked up the rifle, it's as if she said game on!
She did not like cats...........but she adopted a "dropped off abandoned" kitten a few years back, and looked after her, we called the kitten 'Lil Kenny', whom is like a Dog now.............follows me around outside everywhere, comes when whistled at, Shadow was also a teacher!
I continue walk to our Favorite hilltop, and imagine she is by my side, it helps me to grieve, and brings me closure.
I had Shadow cremated, and brought her ashes home the same day, so she could be with us. It was a private cremation, with a viewing, and witness loading into the cremation chamber. This also brought me much closure, that I needed, to ensure that she was sent off in the best dignified manner for our beloved Shadow.
I had wrapped her in a nice plaid cotton blanket that my Mom had made for me years ago.
I had laid down with Shadow all night, before the euthanization and thought she would like that also, along with a few of her favorite squeaky toys, pizzle stick which she carried around like a cigar in her mouth all the time!
The place that did the cremation and service "was part of the family" about 10 mins West of St Albert, on villeneuve road. Ardeth and her staff, treated Shadow, and us in very dignified and respectful manner.
After the service, and taking Shadow's ashes home, I had felt that a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders.
Shadow will never be gone, or forgotten, our pets live on in our hearts, and in our memories.
I just have one question........why do Cats live such a long time??
'Lil Kenny was an azz hole to Shadow sometime!!
She has been sweet as apple pie lately though!
Last edited by KUDUHNTR; 12-18-2020 at 03:23 PM.
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12-18-2020, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted by KUDUHNTR
It is with great sadness that I to had to euthanize my Beloved Shadow on Dec 08/20, whom had 15 wonderful years, she had a good run.
It was the 2nd toughest decision of my life, but it was the best for her, and not my selflessness of wanting to keep her going, and for her quality of life, or lack of @ the time.
I find myself seeing Shadow everywhere, every sight, or sound.....hoping it's her.
Shadow was a rescue Dog, but it was her that rescued us, she taught me to have more patience, to laugh, to be more compassionate.
Shadow was my fishing pal, she really was a shadow, never ever far behind, and would follow everywhere!
Shadow was very accomplished at hunting tree rats (squirrells) and would go into a frenzy when I picked up the rifle, it's as if she said game on!
She did not like cats...........but she adopted a "dropped off abandoned" kitten a few years back, and looked after her, we called the kitten 'Lil Kenny', whom is like a Dog now.............follows me around outside everywhere, comes when whistled at, Shadow was also a teacher!
I continue walk to our Favorite hilltop, and imagine she is by my side, it helps me to grieve, and brings me closure.
I had Shadow cremated, and brought her ashes home the same day, so she could be with us. It was a private cremation, with a viewing, and witness loading into the cremation chamber. This also brought me much closure, that I needed, to ensure that she was sent off in the best dignified manner for our beloved Shadow.
I had wrapped her in a nice plaid cotton blanket that my Mom had made for me years ago.
I had laid down with Shadow all night, before the euthanization and thought she would like that also, along with a few of her favorite squeaky toys, pizzle stick which she carried around like a cigar in her mouth all the time!
The place that did the cremation and service "was part of the family" about 10 mins West of St Albert, on villeneuve road. Ardeth and her staff, treated Shadow, and us in very dignified and respectful manner.
After the service, and taking Shadow's ashes home, I had felt that a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders.
Shadow will never be gone, or forgotten, our pets live on in our hearts, and in our memories.
Ken, get another pet, they will all bring something different into our lives. I'm sure that's what your Bunny would have wanted!!
I just have one question........why do Cats live such a long time??
'Lil Kenny was an azz hole to Shadow sometime!!
She has been sweet as apple pie lately though!
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She is a Beautiful looking dog. All the memories stay with you forever. All my dogs over the years brought me so much happiness and they are the greatest companion. It’s tough but time does heal and you will get another bud. Sorry for your loss.
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12-18-2020, 03:18 PM
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Truly sorry for the loss of your companion....
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12-18-2020, 03:18 PM
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Saw your note in Ken's thread and the damn screen is all blurry now.
My best friend is getting up in years as well and Duke's hips and knees are shot. So far he's still happy, but I dread the day when it comes.
Take care. It's gutting.
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12-18-2020, 03:28 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2015
Location: Near Lac La Biche, Ab.
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Thanks,
Albertadiver, 58thecat, Jigsalot
I always read these threads, never thinking that I would have to post my own, but all the kind words are comforting, thank-you, it means a lot, that in crazy times such as we live live, that we can find common ground, about out beloved pets, and celebrate them, God Bless Pets!
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12-18-2020, 03:30 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2012
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Condolences. She's playing with my Riley on the other side.
BW
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12-18-2020, 03:35 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2015
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Thanks,
They are both squirrel hunt'n!!
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Originally Posted by Bigwoodsman
Condolences. She's playing with my Riley on the other side.
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12-20-2020, 02:57 PM
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I feel your pain, was just out walking my dog and thinking of the other we lost last year. Still feels pretty fresh so sorry for the loss of your dear friend...
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12-20-2020, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by trophyhunter
I feel your pain, was just out walking my dog and thinking of the other we lost last year. Still feels pretty fresh so sorry for the loss of your dear friend...
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Thanks for your kind words, the neighbour was just over, and he has 5 year old chesapeake huge male dog, named Chester, so I had a Dog fix today!
Sorry for your loss also, It will take quite some time I'm thinking, As pet owners, we will always remember our dear departed companions.
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12-21-2020, 12:07 PM
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If I can only suggest- get another dog if you can, ASAP. You can’t live without it anyway, so why wait? The new dog will let your heart heal faster. The new dog will fill your heart with love again. Nothing beats new mischievous puppy in the house! Ask me how do I know....
I started looking for the pup after a week... got him 5 months later. He definitely filled the void and more... Love him like crazy!
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12-21-2020, 07:04 PM
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Ahhh...........So cute!!!
Have to get the Mrs onboard with this..........she says no way, and I says, yes ways.......will give it some time, but i do want to get another pooch for sure!!
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12-22-2020, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by KUDUHNTR
Ahhh...........So cute!!!
Have to get the Mrs onboard with this..........she says no way, and I says, yes ways.......will give it some time, but i do want to get another pooch for sure!!
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My wife and daughter were saying that I am rushing to get a new dog, that they need time... I remember that after we lost our first dog back in 2001, we saidNo more, that is it and waited 10 years.... That was the biggest mistake in our life!
This time I insisted on doing it my way and did all the looking around work. When we found a pup, we went to meet the breeder and my wife changed her mind instantly. The daughter was apprehensive up until the moment the little guy arrived at the house, then it was an instant love!
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12-22-2020, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by KUDUHNTR
It is with great sadness that I to had to euthanize my Beloved Shadow on Dec 08/20, whom had 15 wonderful years, she had a good run.
It was the 2nd toughest decision of my life, but it was the best for her, and not my selflessness of wanting to keep her going, and for her quality of life, or lack of @ the time.
I find myself seeing Shadow everywhere, every sight, or sound.....hoping it's her.
Shadow was a rescue Dog, but it was her that rescued us, she taught me to have more patience, to laugh, to be more compassionate.
Shadow was my fishing pal, she really was a shadow, never ever far behind, and would follow everywhere!
Shadow was very accomplished at hunting tree rats (squirrells) and would go into a frenzy when I picked up the rifle, it's as if she said game on!
She did not like cats...........but she adopted a "dropped off abandoned" kitten a few years back, and looked after her, we called the kitten 'Lil Kenny', whom is like a Dog now.............follows me around outside everywhere, comes when whistled at, Shadow was also a teacher!
I continue walk to our Favorite hilltop, and imagine she is by my side, it helps me to grieve, and brings me closure.
I had Shadow cremated, and brought her ashes home the same day, so she could be with us. It was a private cremation, with a viewing, and witness loading into the cremation chamber. This also brought me much closure, that I needed, to ensure that she was sent off in the best dignified manner for our beloved Shadow.
I had wrapped her in a nice plaid cotton blanket that my Mom had made for me years ago.
I had laid down with Shadow all night, before the euthanization and thought she would like that also, along with a few of her favorite squeaky toys, pizzle stick which she carried around like a cigar in her mouth all the time!
The place that did the cremation and service "was part of the family" about 10 mins West of St Albert, on villeneuve road. Ardeth and her staff, treated Shadow, and us in very dignified and respectful manner.
After the service, and taking Shadow's ashes home, I had felt that a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders.
Shadow will never be gone, or forgotten, our pets live on in our hearts, and in our memories.
I just have one question........why do Cats live such a long time??
'Lil Kenny was an azz hole to Shadow sometime!!
She has been sweet as apple pie lately though!
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What a nice way to describe this sad yet appropriate decision..
I have a couple of pouches (9 and 8). My biggest fear is whoever will go first, as I am not sure how the other will take it as they have been together for about 8 years.
And of course, my wife and I. These little buggers are glue on glue, not only to them, but to us. Hell. we go grocery shopping for 2 hours, and come back home. Absolutely traumatized we left them alone so long...lol
Pets are a precious part of families. When I hear stories such as yours, I think of all dog/cat/ and others owners that have to deal with these sad times.
Thanx for sharing and keep your chin up. Your pet will never be forgotten.
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12-22-2020, 07:53 PM
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So sorry form your loss KUDUHNTR.
here is a link too a thread I posted a few years back.
I still read that short story occasionally.....
Cat
http://www.outdoorsmenforum.ca/showthread.php?t=218550
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12-22-2020, 09:48 PM
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Hello Catnthehat,
Thanks for your kind words about Shadow, she remains in my heart and thoughts.
Your Story reminds me of my Grandfather ( he was more of a Father to me ) who would always take me fishing, and beach combing to a secret spot, or so I thought as a young boy, felt like it was a secret spot to me! He has been gone for along time, but I still think of him, and our fishing from often, and what special times we had. Caught my first fish with Grandpa, first 3 actually, never landed any of them. The seals of Cowichan Bay had different plans for those salmon!
Have a Merry Christmas Cat, and a Happy New Year to you and your family!
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12-22-2020, 09:56 PM
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And a Merry Christmas to you and yours as well, KUDUHUNTR!
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12-22-2020, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Phil McCracken
What a nice way to describe this sad yet appropriate decision..
I have a couple of pouches (9 and 8). My biggest fear is whoever will go first, as I am not sure how the other will take it as they have been together for about 8 years.
And of course, my wife and I. These little buggers are glue on glue, not only to them, but to us. Hell. we go grocery shopping for 2 hours, and come back home. Absolutely traumatized we left them alone so long...lol
Pets are a precious part of families. When I hear stories such as yours, I think of all dog/cat/ and others owners that have to deal with these sad times.
Thanx for sharing and keep your chin up. Your pet will never be forgotten.
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Hello Phil McCracken,
Thanks for your kind words, and thoughts about Shadow. I will never forget her, as I have many great memories, and adventures we shared over the years
I will always remember pulling into the driveway, and seeing Shadow looking out the window, for my arrival, and then she would start jumping up and down, and greet me at the door with her favourite toy!
Thanks for your words of encouragement, and I hope your pets have many years together, and with your and your Family
Merry Christmas, and a happy New Year!
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12-23-2020, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted by KUDUHNTR
Hello Phil McCracken,
Thanks for your kind words, and thoughts about Shadow. I will never forget her, as I have many great memories, and adventures we shared over the years
I will always remember pulling into the driveway, and seeing Shadow looking out the window, for my arrival, and then she would start jumping up and down, and greet me at the door with her favourite toy!
Thanks for your words of encouragement, and I hope your pets have many years together, and with your and your Family
Merry Christmas, and a happy New Year!
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Have a great Xmas also KUDU!
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12-23-2020, 07:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Sundog57
My hope is that whenever we get to wherever that is, that they're all there waiting at the door to meet us, wagging and smiling.
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Me too!
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Originally Posted by dodger
These threads make me cry like a baby. It also shows how we are all connected as a community in our love of our pets. Sooo much love in this thread.
Dodger.
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Google Rainbow Bridge if you have never heard of it. It pretty much describes what your saying.
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Have a great Xmas also KUDU!
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Hey Guys,
Thanks so much, I really appreciate it, means a lot, really. That's one thing I can agree one, as a community, we can feel for others, when we lose pets, and grieve as a community also.
I also hope that when we leave this earth, and our pets are waiting for us at the rainbow bridge, where they will join us, forever after, That's the hope, im hoping for
When I have read past post's on here, about members pets passing, I always shed a tear...............thinking of my own Beloved Shadow.....it's' been 2 weeks since she crossed over, still an empty void, going to be hard over the holidays, but i'm very happy that she as living a pain free life now, with dignity. That's the most important thing. I wish everybody a Merry Christmas, hug your pets for me, and thanks for all the kind words, and condolences for Shadow, she is looking down wagging her tail.
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