Depression, anxiety and stress

[PaintearthCounty]

I have been dealing with kidney failure since August 2013, on dialysis since October 2016 , I have calculated that I have put in approximately 3100 hours on Home Dialysis, , and now 5790 hours on dialysis in the hospital, It is a 60 km drive back and forth , 3x a week , I’m so stressed, feel like the world is closing in on me , is there a medication to help me relieve stress and anxiety, perhaps cannabis, I was 58 when I was hit with kidney failure, 69 this November, I live alone , and finding it difficult to do household chores, as I haven’t got the strength and tired easily and low energy

[Talking moose]

I have no answer for you but man I feel for you. That’s a lot of km’s and time spent doing that. I can’t even imagine.

[golferac]

I always recommend microdosing magic mushrooms but I have no idea the interaction with your other medications. I am also not a doctor.

[PaintearthCounty]

Originally Posted by PaintearthCounty

I have been dealing with kidney failure since August 2013, on dialysis since October 2016 , I have calculated that I have put in approximately 3100 hours on Home Dialysis, , and now 5790 hours on dialysis in the hospital, It is a 60 km drive back and forth , 3x a week , I’m so stressed, feel like the world is closing in on me , is there a medication to help me relieve stress and anxiety, perhaps cannabis, I was 58 when I was hit with kidney failure, 69 this November, I live alone , and finding it difficult to do household chores, as I haven’t got the strength and tired easily and low energy

, I’m a non smoker, I try to eat healthy, I’m not a drinker ,

[flyguyd]

I use St Johns Wort. It may not be powerful enough fpr you but it might be worth a try

[waldedw]

Originally Posted by PaintearthCounty

I have been dealing with kidney failure since August 2013, on dialysis since October 2016 , I have calculated that I have put in approximately 3100 hours on Home Dialysis, , and now 5790 hours on dialysis in the hospital, It is a 60 km drive back and forth , 3x a week , I’m so stressed, feel like the world is closing in on me , is there a medication to help me relieve stress and anxiety, perhaps cannabis, I was 58 when I was hit with kidney failure, 69 this November, I live alone , and finding it difficult to do household chores, as I haven’t got the strength and tired easily and low energy

I know exactly what you mean, I am the same age as you and have been battling leukemia for 8 years now, I have made so many trips to the cross cancer institute in Edmonton my vehicle can go there by itself, I have been poked and prodded in every orifice I have and had in excess of 600 vials of blood drawn, there was day's I felt like a pin cushion.

8 years ago I made up my mind that I would always stay positive and never let this disease get me down mentally but it's dam hard at times and maintaining a positive attitude has been a struggle more than once in the years since my diagnosis.

For the last 4 years that has been somewhat easier as my meds had the leukemia in check and I was feeling pretty good most day's, but the last 3 or 4 months it has flared up big time again and is developing an immunity to the drugs, more so my body is starting to reject the meds, one of the main side effects of the drugs is A-fib which has put me in the hospital twice in the last 3 months, my oncologist say's in layman's terms the drug that has been saving my life is slowly starting to kill me and so the struggle and the fight is back on to find a new cocktail.

I find sometimes just talking about it makes it better, I'm lucky as I have a wonderful wife going on 48 years next month, she's a good listener and a good crutch to lean on when I need it plus my daughter and X daughter in law are both in the medical field so it's easy to bounce things off them, I am very blessed and lucky in that regard.

I will PM you my cell number if you ever need to talk just dial it.

God's speed
Ed

[58thecat]

Originally Posted by PaintearthCounty

I have been dealing with kidney failure since August 2013, on dialysis since October 2016 , I have calculated that I have put in approximately 3100 hours on Home Dialysis, , and now 5790 hours on dialysis in the hospital, It is a 60 km drive back and forth , 3x a week , I’m so stressed, feel like the world is closing in on me , is there a medication to help me relieve stress and anxiety, perhaps cannabis, I was 58 when I was hit with kidney failure, 69 this November, I live alone , and finding it difficult to do household chores, as I haven’t got the strength and tired easily and low energy

You need to sit with a doctor, talk about your issues, they will send you down the right path with regards to medication and other treatments.

Don’t take social media experts advice with regards to medications, dosages etc...best of luck.

[58thecat]

Originally Posted by waldedw

I know exactly what you mean, I am the same age as you and have been battling leukemia for 8 years now, I have made so many trips to the cross cancer institute in Edmonton my vehicle can go there by itself, I have been poked and prodded in every orifice I have and had in excess of 600 vials of blood drawn, there was day's I felt like a pin cushion.

8 years ago I made up my mind that I would always stay positive and never let this disease get me down mentally but it's dam hard at times and maintaining a positive attitude has been a struggle more than once in the years since my diagnosis.

For the last 4 years that has been somewhat easier as my meds had the leukemia in check and I was feeling pretty good most day's, but the last 3 or 4 months it has flared up big time again and is developing an immunity to the drugs, more so my body is starting to reject the meds, one of the main side effects of the drugs is A-fib which has put me in the hospital twice in the last 3 months, my oncologist say's in layman's terms the drug that has been saving my life is slowly starting to kill me and so the struggle and the fight is back on to find a new cocktail.

I find sometimes just talking about it makes it better, I'm lucky as I have a wonderful wife going on 48 years next month, she's a good listener and a good crutch to lean on when I need it plus my daughter and X daughter in law are both in the medical field so it's easy to bounce things off them, I am very blessed and lucky in that regard.

I will PM you my cell number if you ever need to talk just dial it.

God's speed
Ed

Always nice to talk to someone too just to stay positive.
Even better if they can relate to what your going through.....good on you Ed.

[antlercarver]

I wish I could help you in some way, but I must tell you that by writing here you have helped me and possibly others. What you say makes my issues seem small and thereby I feel better. Thank you and again I wish I could offer you some relief.

[sns2]

Good morning, I am sorry to hear of the health challenges you are facing. This seems incredibly hard on one’s own. Talk to your doctor. He will be able to help. Depression and anxiety on their own are crippling, add on what you are going through and holy hell. Too much.

[densa44]

Hi friend, I"m glad that you have written, and your courage and efforts are commendable.
Depression is a very serious illness and in the elderly, (If I make it to July I"ll be 79) is dangerous.
As has been suggested a frank talk to your doctor is an excellent idea, It may be time to think about moving into a lodge. You would have some people to talk to and have help with the dialysis.
I don't know if you are eligible for a transplant or not, but a lodge may be a good solution for you.
You have friends here who will help you if they can, keep up your spirits, and write with how you are making out. God Bless.

[W921]

Originally Posted by PaintearthCounty

I have been dealing with kidney failure since August 2013, on dialysis since October 2016 , I have calculated that I have put in approximately 3100 hours on Home Dialysis, , and now 5790 hours on dialysis in the hospital, It is a 60 km drive back and forth , 3x a week , I’m so stressed, feel like the world is closing in on me , is there a medication to help me relieve stress and anxiety, perhaps cannabis, I was 58 when I was hit with kidney failure, 69 this November, I live alone , and finding it difficult to do household chores, as I haven’t got the strength and tired easily and low energy

Waldew is right. The more we focused on problem or pain the worse,bigger it becomes. Positive attitude helps.Take a while and we change our thinking gradually.
Joyce Meyers has a really good ministry that probably way different than your used to.
Talk to your doc about meds.

[Scott h]

Originally Posted by 58thecat

You need to sit with a doctor, talk about your issues, they will send you down the right path with regards to medication and other treatments.

Don’t take social media experts advice with regards to medications, dosages etc...best of luck.

This!!!!!!

[KC1]

Originally Posted by PaintearthCounty

I have been dealing with kidney failure since August 2013, on dialysis since October 2016 , I have calculated that I have put in approximately 3100 hours on Home Dialysis, , and now 5790 hours on dialysis in the hospital, It is a 60 km drive back and forth , 3x a week , I’m so stressed, feel like the world is closing in on me , is there a medication to help me relieve stress and anxiety, perhaps cannabis, I was 58 when I was hit with kidney failure, 69 this November, I live alone , and finding it difficult to do household chores, as I haven’t got the strength and tired easily and low energy

I feel for you
I can't help you
But there is One that can help you
If you are up to it, then try to go to church on Sunday mornings
Not only to listen to the Message, but you might also get a support group
Wishing you all the best 👍

[Sundancefisher]

Never take medical advice on social media. It’s extremely dangerous to give and receive such advice unless you are going to ask your doctor about said suggestions.

Doesn’t sound like you are in the Calgary area.

Get outside if only just to sit and get some sun on your skin for 10 minutes then shade and breathe the outside air.

Reach out for peer support

https://kidney.ca/Support/Peer-Support

Sign up for online support https://kidney.ning.com/main/authori...ey.ning.com%2F

Also there is a Facebook group… Kidney Disease & Dialysis Support Canada
Join and ask questions. Often when experiencing health struggles it’s comforting to talk to someone who has been there.

Ensure to explain in detail what you are feeling to your doctor as soon as possible.

While we aren’t there with you… I am sure I speak for all who say we are all thinking of you and sending positive thoughts. You aren’t alone because we all care about you… a fellow outdoorsman.

Take care of yourself and seek the help you deserve. It does take courage to ask for help so good start.

[pikergolf]

Originally Posted by PaintearthCounty

I have been dealing with kidney failure since August 2013, on dialysis since October 2016 , I have calculated that I have put in approximately 3100 hours on Home Dialysis, , and now 5790 hours on dialysis in the hospital, It is a 60 km drive back and forth , 3x a week , I’m so stressed, feel like the world is closing in on me , is there a medication to help me relieve stress and anxiety, perhaps cannabis, I was 58 when I was hit with kidney failure, 69 this November, I live alone , and finding it difficult to do household chores, as I haven’t got the strength and tired easily and low energy

First call should be to Social Services for some help on the logistics side of getting back and forth to your appointments and help around the house. You are a senior so there should be something available. Next up is to talk to your Dr. about your symptoms, and find something to help with anxiety. Anxiety alone can drain you in a hurry but there are medications. Good Luck!

[59whiskers]

Originally Posted by KC1

I feel for you
I can't help you
But there is One that can help you
If you are up to it, then try to go to church on Sunday mornings
Not only to listen to the Message, but you might also get a support group
Wishing you all the best 👍

X2

[barsik]

Originally Posted by Sundancefisher

Never take medical advice on social media. It’s extremely dangerous to give and receive such advice unless you are going to ask your doctor about said suggestions.

Doesn’t sound like you are in the Calgary area.

Get outside if only just to sit and get some sun on your skin for 10 minutes then shade and breathe the outside air.

Reach out for peer support

https://kidney.ca/Support/Peer-Support

Sign up for online support https://kidney.ning.com/main/authori...ey.ning.com%2F

Also there is a Facebook group… Kidney Disease & Dialysis Support Canada
Join and ask questions. Often when experiencing health struggles it’s comforting to talk to someone who has been there.

Ensure to explain in detail what you are feeling to your doctor as soon as possible.

While we aren’t there with you… I am sure I speak for all who say we are all thinking of you and sending positive thoughts. You aren’t alone because we all care about you… a fellow outdoorsman.

Take care of yourself and seek the help you deserve. It does take courage to ask for help so good start.

this is a great post. the only bit that I can add is don't be afraid to consult with more than one specialist and try to do a little research on your own with known and authentic research centers like Johns Hopkins. best of luck to you, medical research is making tremendous progress every day.

[walking buffalo]

In response to suggestions to Never take advice from Social media,

Medically licensed advice is limited, and in instances governed to prevent the use of proven medications and techniques for better health.

Just look back at the Covid fiasco....

It is ridiculous to only listen to licensed medical advice.



Listen to all advice, then filter it and proceed with care.
I hope you listen to me and others here, then decide on what advice to "take".


That you recognize and are looking to fight depression means you are ready to beat it.

Cannabis? I suggest No. Weed is an depressant.
Cannabis has no known effect in curing depression, and may exasperate or even cause depression to set in.

After decades of denial from the official medical community, psilocybin as a treatment for depression and other disorders is finally being given the "legitimate" recognition it deserves.
Of course, the medical community and government is trying to fully control the access to this medicine before proceeding..

Be VERY careful of anti-depressants. So many people receive so little benefit from them, and pay a heavy price from complicated side effects.

Magic mushrooms, which are now legal within context ( so no need for mods to delete this as being illegal) have an incredible success rate with eliminating depression, literally hundreds of times better than any prescription pharmaceutical.. and without any complications when taken with ANY medications, and without a high or side effects.

Accessing mushrooms for medicine is easy and very Inexpensive,
accessing licensed medical care with mushrooms is not, and VERY expensive.


Feel free to pm me if you would like to talk and I'll suggest some reading and ways to further educate yourself.

[darlin]

I work for AHS doing home care, we are here to help individuals just like yourself. I am not familiar with the process of starting home care services but here is an AHS page with an overview and contact info.

https://www.albertahealthservices.ca/cc/page15488.aspx

[skidderman]

Originally Posted by darlin

I work for AHS doing home care, we are here to help individuals just like yourself. I am not familiar with the process of starting home care services but here is an AHS page with an overview and contact info.

https://www.albertahealthservices.ca/cc/page15488.aspx

I recently had home care help me with kidney problems as well. I believe what you need is a referral from your doctor then they set up home care. I chose to go to the hospital to get help but they would have come to my house if I wanted. Am so far going on a 5th month of trying to save my kidney. The battle is real both mentally & physically. I pray with all my might that the op gets help & relief. Best of luck & God bless. You have guts for sharing!!!!

[Sundancefisher]

Originally Posted by walking buffalo

In response to suggestions to Never take advice from Social media,

Medically licensed advice is limited, and in instances governed to prevent the use of proven medications and techniques for better health.

Just look back at the Covid fiasco....

It is ridiculous to only listen to licensed medical advice.



Listen to all advice, then filter it and proceed with care.
I hope you listen to me and others here, then decide on what advice to "take".


That you recognize and are looking to fight depression means you are ready to beat it.

Cannabis? I suggest No. Weed is an depressant.
Cannabis has no known effect in curing depression, and may exasperate or even cause depression to set in.

After decades of denial from the official medical community, psilocybin as a treatment for depression and other disorders is finally being given the "legitimate" recognition it deserves.
Of course, the medical community and government is trying to fully control the access to this medicine before proceeding..

Be VERY careful of anti-depressants. So many people receive so little benefit from them, and pay a heavy price from complicated side effects.

Magic mushrooms, which are now legal within context ( so no need for mods to delete this as being illegal) have an incredible success rate with eliminating depression, literally hundreds of times better than any prescription pharmaceutical.. and without any complications when taken with ANY medications, and without a high or side effects.

Accessing mushrooms for medicine is easy and very Inexpensive,
accessing licensed medical care with mushrooms is not, and VERY expensive.


Feel free to pm me if you would like to talk and I'll suggest some reading and ways to further educate yourself.

This is extremely dangerous advice. You have no clue of his medical history, medications, affects on current and future treatment. His life is not your online curiosity experiment. Look after your own life how you see fit and bypass any professional medical advice you like.

Your unqualified non medical advice could lead to tragic consequences.

Let him ask his medical professionals. Do not encourage self medication. Please and thanks.

[Trochu]

Lets try to keep it between the rails fellas vs which social media advice people should listen too.

[darlin]

Originally Posted by densa44

It may be time to think about moving into a lodge. You would have some people to talk to and have help with the dialysis.
I don't know if you are eligible for a transplant or not, but a lodge may be a good solution for you..

A lodge is definitely worth checking out but I would caution, especially not knowing your circumstances, that it is not cheap. I spend some of my time working in a beautiful facility. The suites are similar to a small studio apartment with room for you to bring your favourite furniture, wall hangings a etc. They have a great recreation team that puts on a variety of activities and performers most days of the week and monthly group outings. Meals are prepared for you, and the coffee and juice bar is always open. Beautiful indoor and outdoor recreation areas. Best of all, a community of neighbours to connect with.

[walking buffalo]

Originally Posted by Sundancefisher

This is extremely dangerous advice. You have no clue of his medical history, medications, affects on current and future treatment. His life is not your online curiosity experiment. Look after your own life how you see fit and bypass any professional medical advice you like.

Your unqualified non medical advice could lead to tragic consequences.

Let him ask his medical professionals. Do not encourage self medication. Please and thanks.

You are way outside of your lane.
I won't let these insults and lies go unanswered.
Sorry Mods, Sundance does not get to say such things about me without a response.


I did not advise him to take anything, I advised him to keep an open mind and research widely.
I offered to help him to research a field of proven medical care that is difficult to navigate for those that are new to it.

You have no knowledge of what I know, what my qualifications are, what questions I would ask before offering to provide any information, nor who I would suggest a person contacts to acquire further advice.

In other words, you are speaking authority from pure ignorance and deceit.
That's dangerous.

There are literally millions of people worldwide that would still be suffering from depression if they listened to you, Sundance.
Thankfully, your kind is becoming rarer every year.

[Sundancefisher]

Originally Posted by walking buffalo

You are way outside of your lane.
I won't let these insults and lies go unanswered.
Sorry Mods, Sundance does not get to say such things about me without a response.


I did not advise him to take anything, I advised him to keep an open mind and research widely.
I offered to help him to research a field of proven medical care that is difficult to navigate for those that are new to it.

You have no knowledge of what I know, what my qualifications are, what questions I would ask before offering to provide any information, nor who I would suggest a person contacts to acquire further advice.

In other words, you are speaking authority from pure ignorance and deceit.
That's dangerous.

There are literally millions of people worldwide that would still be suffering from depression if they listened to you, Sundance.
Thankfully, your kind is becoming rarer every year.

You know what. He has enough stress. Read what I said. There is no insult.

You may think you can diagnose someone over the internet…but…

Let’s let him deal with his doctors first before directing him elsewhere.

Cheers.

Enough said mods.

[Twisted Canuck]

You can always tell when a thread has gone off the rails when people start invoking mods, and trying to let us know how it is all ok how they are derailing.

OP, sorry for your circumstance, and the inevitable result you will get on AO, asking for advice. Talk to your Doctor.

Sundance and Walkiing Buffalo, feel free to send each other private messages next time, or meet up behind the gym at recess. You're embarrassing.

Closed.