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Old 09-15-2017, 08:54 PM
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Hate to drag a man from his position this time of year but I've got a tiny little issue😁 Some suggestions would be helpful with this Delema so to speak.
The wife wants another kid and as the old saying goes, there's never a good time.
There really isn't, but we made the first one work and we ain't getting any younger.

Slap shot or not

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Old 09-15-2017, 09:23 PM
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Really your asking everyone on here if you should sleep with your wife???
Post nudes of her and we will tell you if you should or not. LOL

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Old 09-15-2017, 09:24 PM
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Happy wife, happy life.

If she really wants another kid she will find a way to have one. The question is, "do you want her to have it with you?"

That's the only real choice YOU have..

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Old 09-15-2017, 09:46 PM
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The more kids you have the more you have to pay after the divorce.
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Old 09-15-2017, 10:07 PM
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Hate to drag a man from his position this time of year but I've got a tiny little issue😁 Some suggestions would be helpful with this Delema so to speak.
The wife wants another kid and as the old saying goes, there's never a good time.
There really isn't, but we made the first one work and we ain't getting any younger.

Slap shot or not

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The wife wants another kid. Sounds like you don't. Trouble.
There's never a good time. If this is how you think - Double Trouble, and not SRV.
You made the first one work??? Accident?? Not sure what that means but...ok.

Kids are and should be a joy. Don't have them if you don't want one, for the kids sake, not yours. The fact you have to ask the AO crowd worries me. Don't bring a kid into this world unless you want and will care for one.

Based on the fact that you have to ask and cannot decide on your own, I say NOT.

Unless I'm missing something.......

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Old 09-15-2017, 10:37 PM
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Hate to drag a man from his position this time of year but I've got a tiny little issue😁 Some suggestions would be helpful with this Delema so to speak.
The wife wants another kid and as the old saying goes, there's never a good time.
There really isn't, but we made the first one work and we ain't getting any younger.

Slap shot or not

What say you
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One lament I hear from many people my age is they wish they had more kids.
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Old 09-16-2017, 08:18 AM
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Hate to drag a man from his position this time of year but I've got a tiny little issue😁 Some suggestions would be helpful with this Delema so to speak.
The wife wants another kid and as the old saying goes, there's never a good time.
There really isn't, but we made the first one work and we ain't getting any younger.

Slap shot or not

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Kids: the more, the merrier, providing both parents want them of course. Sure they're lots of work, but the payoff is priceless. It's important your heart be in it though and that's not something some sage words and/or sarcasm from a group of strangers can provide.
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Old 09-16-2017, 09:42 AM
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You sure as heck don't want to do that right now...you would have a 2 month old at the start of next season.

Make a deal with her, you will start ...ahem..."trying" I think is the word they use...in may. Then your wife isn't too far along to leave by herself next season, and the little bugger is born early in the year and is sleeping through the night, and doesn't screw up 2019s hunting season.
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Old 09-16-2017, 10:32 AM
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You sure as heck don't want to do that right now...you would have a 2 month old at the start of next season.

Make a deal with her, you will start ...ahem..."trying" I think is the word they use...in may. Then your wife isn't too far along to leave by herself next season, and the little bugger is born early in the year and is sleeping through the night, and doesn't screw up 2019s hunting season.

Further to this point. Never get married from Aug 25- Nov 30 and never date a woman who has a birthday in that range either.
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Old 09-16-2017, 10:46 AM
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You must ask yourself .."Why does my wife want a goat and What am I going to do when the goat grows up?"
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Old 09-16-2017, 11:19 AM
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Old 09-16-2017, 11:23 AM
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You would deny her because.....?
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Old 09-16-2017, 11:31 AM
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We had our kids close together. They're 18 months apart and I wouldn't have it any other way.

If you know you want another but are looking for the perfect time you should just start trying. Like you said there isn't a perfect time.

If you're unsure if you want another don't. If you're going to be miserable about it you'll likely end up resenting your wife which will lead to problems in your relationship I think.

When we married my wife and I wanted a large family. Difficult pregnancies led us to the decision that we'd be happy with the two we have. Now that our children are getting older we're happy we stopped at two. We've got one in preschool and one in kindergarten our free time is increasing and we have more time for each other. She can hold her little nieces and nephews and we hand them back at the end of the day or after a sleep over.

Good luck with your decision it can be a difficult one.
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Old 09-16-2017, 11:32 AM
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The fact you have to ask the AO crowd worries me.
That does not worry me, but it should worry the OP.
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Old 09-16-2017, 11:35 AM
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The more kids you have the more you have to pay after the divorce.
Not everyone ends up divorced Etowncanuck. I realize many do but not all do. Making decisions based on how it will play out if a divorce comes along will doom your relationship before it even has a chance imo.
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Old 09-16-2017, 12:09 PM
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Not everyone ends up divorced Etowncanuck. I realize many do but not all do. Making decisions based on how it will play out if a divorce comes along will doom your relationship before it even has a chance imo.
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i like the positive outlook... as for the kids I got 2 and a 3rd on the way. Wife wants to stop at 3 but I think I might want a fourth. I grew up in a big family and it's truly a blessing to have lots of siblings to grow up (and grow old) with. Not to mention that having more kids increases your chance of having more grandkids. There's no better way to leave your legacy than through your kids.
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Old 09-16-2017, 12:45 PM
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There are more and more losers is this country all the time.
Want to even the odds?
Have more kids and raise them to be good people.
Because you know all the losers are going to have a pile of kids.
Do it for your country.


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Old 09-16-2017, 07:25 PM
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You can have one of mine.😀
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Old 09-16-2017, 07:29 PM
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You can have mine . He is 30 and just potty trained
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Old 09-16-2017, 08:39 PM
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Old 09-16-2017, 09:08 PM
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Is this an outdoorsman forum or Oprah Winfrey? OP, either man up, talk to your mother, or get councelling. Good luck. Kids are great. Grand kids better.
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It is all about planning. Conceive in late May early June. Avoids hunting season and sets up a great hockey birthday. I have two both feb birthdays, that is accurate shooting
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Old 09-17-2017, 05:37 AM
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All my kids have hunting season birthdays. Loose 3 weekends a year. Soon I will the girls hunting on there birthdays.
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Old 09-17-2017, 06:41 AM
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Family planning has been a nail in the coffin of western society.

The more the merrier. Not only are kids special but they are an investment. Nobody reaches old age and wishes they had fewer children.
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Hmmmm advice on bringing a new baby into this world based on the forums response....interesting
And scarey
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Happy spouse
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And live a possible life of misery...life sentence or how about both be happy and live together happy...
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Old 09-17-2017, 01:21 PM
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Hate to drag a man from his position this time of year but I've got a tiny little issue😁 Some suggestions would be helpful with this Delema so to speak.
The wife wants another kid and as the old saying goes, there's never a good time.
There really isn't, but we made the first one work and we ain't getting any younger.

Slap shot or not

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I say show your wife the "money shot" comment
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Old 09-17-2017, 07:06 PM
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Money shots are not conducive to creating a baby.
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