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Old 02-13-2015, 05:41 PM
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This sucks, and i feel for you.
However if all it took for her to bounce was a minor hiccup in your job.
What would the chances be she would stick around for the tougher parts of a relationship?
Better now than months or years from now.
Stay strong bud, you will find someone.
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Old 02-13-2015, 05:53 PM
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Here you go my friend.

Lmao.... soooo true.
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Old 02-13-2015, 07:09 PM
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you needed the rebound relationship to remind you how rich and wonderful life can be.

You also needed the rebound relationship to remind you that evil can exist absolutely anywhere.

The universe's way of telling you that if it seemed too good to be true-it probably was.
Your endorphins just took a hard one to the nuts-:sha_shakeshout:
Keep calm and soldier on and eventually you will be looking out at the indescribeable beauty below from the highest peak soaking in all the joy and reward that life has in store for you.
One tiny step forward from there will reveal a avalanche chute where at the bottom your broken bones and shattered dreams will bleach in the sun and serve as a reminder to all to just forget about love
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it could get better
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Old 02-13-2015, 08:07 PM
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Default life does get better

it did by her not answering your calls.try it 1 wk before your wedding day and having to call all your rsvp and saying it's off.YOU JUST WON THE LOTTERY
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Old 02-13-2015, 08:16 PM
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Bullet dodged.

Fisherpeak...great post.

A wise old man once told me..."Ruga, when I was a young pup, I used to think women were only good for two things...now I'm not so sure about the one."

Chin up, and count your blessings. It can always get worse.
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Old 02-14-2015, 08:09 AM
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Smile You're lucky!

Come on man, it could have been much worse. Spring is coming, the birds are coming back soon, and you have your health, youth, just need to look on the bright side.

Try looking for a new mate in a different pond. Be cautious.

To answer your question, of course things will get better, as the Bible says; "and it came to pass", just be thankful it didn't come to stay!
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Old 02-14-2015, 10:22 AM
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Congratulations man ! Imagine if you would have spent years with this no account so and so. Count your blessings, I really mean that. I don't believe you where in any condition do get back into a relationship but that's just me.

If I remember right you had a job with the government and some folks on here cautioned you to stay in that job, or take a leave of absence. I hope you did this. Excuse me if I have you confused with someone else.

Get your ducks in a row or this will be a pattern going forward. Woman need security, plain and simple !!!!

Some guy's need to learn the hard way. Sorry you had to go through this stuff.

I realize this is a bit harsh but that's life my friend.

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Old 02-14-2015, 11:10 AM
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You dodged a bullet by the sounds of it. I've sworn if I ever get divorced I'm staying single one marriage is enough. I don't know how some guys don't learn and go through 3 marriages. Hope things work out for you.
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Old 02-14-2015, 06:19 PM
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Thanks everyone, i appreciate all the advice and feedback, know it hasn't fallen on deaf ears.

Its now day 5 I still haven't heard anything from her.

I was sober for 8 years, well last night that came to an end...which i hate...i hate the fact...hate the fact she was able to push me back there.....

I just cant believe someone can be so cold...heartless...with someone...she knew i was emotionally fragile...and also knew i had been sober for 8 years...yet still was able to not offer any closer...it borderlines sociopathy

I think it hurts so much because i am a very trusting person...i believed she was the person she said and that is who i fell for...and believed she fell for me...

The fact the last communication i had from her was a text on my way home...word for word...

her last text as i was driving back...20 mins after losing my job

"you losing your job wont effect us, we will figure it out. I love you. I will call you as soon as the house is quiet"

Then...as you know...vanished into thin air...

I suppose I was just thinking i deserved some kind of closure...not just...vanish after that text... But I haven't chased her anymore since day 3. But i would be lying if i said i still wait for my cell to go...But i think we all know i'm not going to hear from her again...



I know there are gold diggers out there... but i just don't understand the cold heartlessness of her... and the lack of empathy towards someone, who you made believe this was real...

Part of me....just want to hear from her...as i miss her...i miss the feeling of when i thought this was real....

I wont let this destroy me though...and i refuse to let it destroy my trust in people...

as always i appreciate you guys...always have...you guys always seem to be there....no matter what...

If i could repay the debit somehow...i would.
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Old 02-14-2015, 06:24 PM
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No debt my friend.
Im sorry you also lost your sobriety to this "women".
Stay strong, im sure several people on here could help you through the drinking..
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Old 02-14-2015, 06:44 PM
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Maybe she's just not into you.
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Old 02-14-2015, 06:44 PM
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Sorry to hear about your troubles, hang in there and never forget women are a renewable resource, always a new crop coming online
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Old 02-14-2015, 06:54 PM
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Default congratulations

2015 could be your best year ever IF you return to sobriety.

Sorry as this is harsh to say, but the cold hard reality is that she didn't push you back to drink, you went there on your own.

We have to be true to ourselves, when the chips are down it's all we got.
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