Grief counselling

[Fish along]

My wife's eldest daughter passed away about a month ago ,and she is taking this very hard,and is very depressed, any suggestions would be appreciated. I was considering grief counselling but they charge big money 130$ per hour for some.thank you.

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[bb356]

Originally Posted by Fish along

My wife's eldest daughter passed away about a month ago ,and she is taking this very hard,and is very depressed, any suggestions would be appreciated. I was considering grief counselling but they charge big money 130$ per hour for some.thank you.

No help here ... but my heartfelt condolence's to the family .

[densa44]

This is a very serious problem and you can get help at no cost from Alberta Mental Health Services. The trigger may be grief but depression is a serious illness and she should see someone asap.

My deepest sympathies on the loss of your child, my sister died young too, but life goes on.

I hope things start getting better for all of you.

[partsman]

At work we have a group that does it as a benefit, but how about a local minister, it maybe offered at a church.

[Dick284]

Sorry for your wife's loss.

I take it the child was not of your own creation?

I'd recommend you discuss this matter with her, her doctor, her priest, or clergy, and more senior family members.

Don't mess around with such issues, they are real and can be very debilitating, and can do irreversible harm if left un checked.

Mental health councelling can be had free of charge if referred by the correct persons.

[rem338win]

What Dick said.

And talk to someone yourself as it call become an issue for you trying to help your significant other. Also to help you understand how to help.

It's a terrible thing for a parent out outlive a child. I'm sorry for her loss.

[covey ridge]

I know what it is like to loose a child. My deepest sympathy to you and your wife. In our area there is a grief group that meets in the hospital. When my son passed the hospice offered the service. You might try calling a hospice in your area. The staff there are very special people. I am told that grief does have its purpose, but be darned if I can understand it. Not handling grief can lead to all sorts of medical and emotional problems. All the best to you and your family.

[mattthegorby]

Originally Posted by densa44

This is a very serious problem and you can get help at no cost from Alberta Mental Health Services. The trigger may be grief but depression is a serious illness and she should see someone asap.

My deepest sympathies on the loss of your child, my sister died young too, but life goes on.

I hope things start getting better for all of you.

Exactly. By going through your family Doctor you can get a referral to a psychologist for assessment on the basis of depression. The psychologist can then work with your wife to come up with a treatment plan.

So sorry for your loss.

Matt

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[Fish along]

Thanks for help in my time of need , lots of good people on here

[hilt134]

May not be helpful but if you think it will work pay it. I've seen a few family messed up from not confronting this. The only other things I can advise is to keep her busy in the times she's not facing her grief. Something physical might be best. I hope it goes well.

[Albertadiver]

Originally Posted by Dick284

Sorry for your wife's loss.

I take it the child was not of your own creation?

I'd recommend you discuss this matter with her, her doctor, her priest, or clergy, and more senior family members.

Don't mess around with such issues, they are real and can be very debilitating, and can do irreversible harm if left un checked.

Mental health councelling can be had free of charge if referred by the correct persons.

This.

Very sorry for the loss your family is dealing with.

Thank you for reaching out for some help. Sometimes that can be the hardest part taking that first step. When a person is under extreme stress or grief thought processes that would normally seem straightforward can be tough to handle. Hoping for all the best for you and family, despite the circumstances.

[Ng1]

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[Gerald_G]

My wife and I lost our son 1.5 years ago. She attended a group grief program here.
The only cost was the purchase of the course book.
(could be refunded if you did not want the book at the end)

It was very helpful for her, and since the course ended all the ladies (it was coincidentally only ladies who attended) have continued to get together weekly for mutual support and social contact.

Hers was in Lacombe, and if you can't find one more local the trip may be worth it. Feel free to message me if you want further details.

[DiabeticKripple]

Some employers offer a family assistance program and they can help with this kind of stuff.

[GrandSlam]

Originally Posted by Fish along

My wife's eldest daughter passed away about a month ago ,and she is taking this very hard,and is very depressed, any suggestions would be appreciated. I was considering grief counselling but they charge big money 130$ per hour for some.thank you.

http://www.albertahealthservices.ca/...ervice=1026229

I found this helpful when my mother passed away.

[Okotokian]

Spend whatever you need to help her. We don't think twice about spending money for a new gun or a vacation. But also check to make sure your employee benefits don't include money for counselling or access to an Employee Assistance Program. All the best to you and your wife.

[Sooner]

Condolences on your family loss. I hope your wife gets the help she needs. Losing a loved one is tough and getting help does not mean weakness.

[BPman]

The grief counselling may be worthwhile at any cost, in the long run. Check your health insurance policy as it might cover a significant portion of the cost to an annual total.

[hayseed]

Originally Posted by Sooner

Condolences on your family loss. I hope your wife gets the help she needs. Losing a loved one is tough and getting help does not mean weakness.

This!!!!

Alberta Health Services has a ton of help available.

Please do whatever it takes to get the ball rolling, don't wait.
I was in a dark mental state a couple of years ago, but because of friends and family, I am stronger now than ever.

My condolences fish, I wish your family all the best.

[Pioneer2]

For the survivors you will never be the same.People who have experienced no such loss have and give unsolicited bad advice because they are at a loss for words.They don't mean to sound condescending but they do.I don't know the details of your wife's loss but eventually she will need to come to terms with her loss ans learn to live with it.There will be bad days and good days ,all come with no warning and can be triggered by a familiar song ,scent phrase or location.Cherish the memories and do something that will honor the child in remembrance.I lost my 24 year old son ,hunting and fishing partner this past May . Hunting was tough and emotional frequenting places we had father son time ,where he got his first deer etc.Your wife's grieve has no timetable so let it take it's course and be supportive.People ,when you don't know what to say ..give her a hug .Others can simply say you are in our thoughts and know that we are praying for you.......God Bless.......Harold

[CF8889]

As others have stressed. Do not take this lightly. Mental health can by hidden until it's too late. If money is an issue, look up non-profit or low income counselling. I can't speak for camrose area, but I can say there are affordable places out there that have helped me and people in my life. It just unfortunately takes some looking.

My thoughts are out to you both.