This can be rough or smooth, he'll decide that. Period. Get him to write her a cheque right now, tonight even for the first 2 weeks of child support. Pick something fair, write her another cheque dated the 15th, It's his child, his responsibility. Help with some back to school stuff if required.
If he pays upfront responsibly like he should, he can go a long ways toward keeping it civil. I know this!
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