I get "we should..." a lot. What this means is "I want you to..." the thing that bugs me is when I spend days working alone on a household project and then over hear her saying "come look at what we did". I've just started replying something along the lines of "we should do that. Tools are in the shop. Get the ground work done and I'll give you a hand standing the walls up when it comes to that. Suddenly it becomes something that "we" dont need to do right away after all.
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