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Originally Posted by omega50
My step daughter went to the eye doctor in Oct 2018. Saw something he did not like. 4 days later brain surgery to remove a large tumor. Mid 30's single mom with a 10 year old.
All went very well and they got it all. But I think she is going through something similar to the OP. Lots to celebrate still being alive and requiring no Chemo from my perspective, a little boy still has his Mama, But she is angry, depressed and quite negative about the future. Her perogative-she earned the right to feel whatever she is feeling.
Her world turned upside down and head cracked open like a walnut-plum sized tumor removed and the fear she must have felt being a single Mom.
Doing well till August then grand mal seizure and now is convinced that something wicked this way comes.
She was coerced into attending a weekly Tumor support group and I think that has helped in the last few weeks.
A victory was won, but the defeat continues.
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Omega I send my prayers and support. I hope the seizure is a one off and that can often be. But I know for me it is harder to take being so young and she is twenty years younger than I. I pray she can beat the tumor and the darkness it has brought to her life. Very much harder with her young one. I know for me a lot of the darkness comes from the fear of my son and wife dealing with my death, I was so sure I would die on the table. But I made it! I want to get to the point where I can celebrate that! God bless her!!