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Originally Posted by kurt505
you get it.
It's especially hard for men because they are supposed to be tough and suck it up, that's why the suicide rate among men is 10x what it is amongst women. you say this
men, if your are in a dark part of your life, don't hesitate to ask someone for a light. Even though you may want to end things, you don't want to destroy the ones who love you, so man up and ask for help instead of creating innocent victims.and then say this = stupid comment
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Originally Posted by kurt505
first off, i have to say i understand mental illness.... Or at least the reality of it.
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Your posts prove that you dont understand. You are better off shutting up.
It is a mental illness, the brain is not processing properly. Victims dont factor in when it gets bad. If they thought it was going to get better, they would not choose the route they did.
Instead of laying the blame on them and adding to their list of problems.
Try helping them, most importantly by listening. You will help more by being there and keeping your mouth shut than telling them crap they have already gone through and considered.
MAC