Very sage advice being handed out here Rotax...accept the heartfelt tips without judging yourself. Why is it that us guys have no problem in getting our vehicles tuned up, guns tuned up, reels tuned up, we read on how to maintain what ever "toy" we have, BUT when it comes to our feelings or relationships, we don't ever try to get a tune up on those? It is nothing to be ashamed about or embarrassed about...it is a necessity as far as I'm concerned! We are all pulling for you!